Humans have always been passionate creatures. Sex is one way we express some of our passions. But what we do within the confines of our consensual sex is a variable as complex and diverse as humanity itself. More and more people play with kink and fetish. But why are kinks so tantalizing? I could think of no better person than a fetish-focused sex worker to tell us. So I asked kinky, BBW Succubus Miss Gigi Fox all about herself and her life as an online fetish model.
Upon beginning our interview, the first thing I was struck by was Gigi’s commanding presence and divine voice. No wonder this model is one of the fan-favorite models at TreasureCams studio! She spoke thoughtfully and genuinely. She was down to earth and articulate. And that sensual voice had me hanging off her every word. At the time of writing this in June 2024, Gigi has well over 100 5-star reviews from fans dating back to when she started with TreasureCams in November of 2022, and the accolades have only increased as she has perfected her art.
Of course, seeing all this success, I had to know, did she come on the scene like that? Did she begin her career in sex work so powerfully and dominant? No, she laughed. She started camming, performing online as a model, in 2017, and describes it as “a fop”. She began dancing soon after that. Luckily in 2020, Gigi just happened to find a BDSM mentor and things started to click for her, and this mentor helped her get back into the industry and into the Dominance side of things.
And Gigi does dominate. She has acquired many titles and epithets since her reentrance in 2020. Miss Gigi Fox is known to many as Succubus, Humiliatrix, Domme, and more. I asked her about her many titles. Did she claim them herself? Did she combine words herself (humiliation / dominatrix)? It turns out that these laurels were bestowed upon her many times before she embraced them herself. Humiliatrix speaks more to the domination of the mind than the physical. Succubus, to Gigi, is “an otherworldly being, of a feminine form, that drains men, and I specifically like the way of getting into someone's head… and ruining them,” she explained with a serene smile.
I was hooked. I had to know more. Why are kinks so arousing? With a Cheshire grin, Gigi informed me that not only was this her favorite question, but she has a psychological background, as well as having a few of her own kinks, of course. As a personal anecdote, Gigi shared that she has some kinks where she can remember the exact moment where it clicked and a kink was born; the sight, the smell, the sound, the thing that created the new kink. And with other ones, she had no idea. So, I learned, kinks can be created by a specific experience. Like, listening to high heels click down a hallway and suddenly developing a heel kink. Gigi also shared that there is research that indicates that kinks could be passed down genetically. There also is some research that says there could be biological factors at play. But whatever is contributing to the development of having the kink, she thinks that what is so exciting and stimulating about engaging in the kinks and fetishes is because it is considered “out of the norm”.
At this point, we were both grinning and my mind was expanding. Normal is so vastly overrated, I thought to myself. I asked her what is the most surprising kink she has seen. She laughed and said she is always surprised by new ones. One “odd one” she shared is a lovely customer who adores her voice so much that they just listen to her read. Honestly, she loves to hear about new kinks and why people are interested in exploring new things! She also loves exploring new kinks as well. Which led me to ask what her newest kink or fetish is that she has acquired that she is working with in sessions? She smirked. “My newest one is burp humiliation,” Gigi told me. She has been blessed with the power of burps for her entire life, she explained, and she most enjoys being able to utilize those skills and surprise people. Even folks who aren’t into it tend to admire her skills.
I stumped her by asking what kink she enjoyed the most. She started giggling and said she enjoyed 99% of them. “I think what makes an enjoyable session more is about chemistry and trust. I think that is why I enjoy sessions so much. Because even if something isn’t my top tier, if I have a good feeling and someone is able to work with me and communicate, that makes a session enjoyable.” What are those incredible sessions like for Gigi? She does not cater to everyone’s kink, she told me, because not everyone’s yum is her yum. What’s exciting for her is to be able to explore kinks with real people, some of whom are learning from articles online, some can’t talk about it with people closest to them, and all of them come to her sessions online. “That is what makes my job most fulfilling.”
And this truly is a JOB. Gigi’s main focus is and always will be her sessions, but in addition to that, she also does phone sessions. Behind the scenes, she is constantly editing, doing management tasks, taking photos, copywriting, planning outfits and props, considering costars, marketing, social media, web design, and building her own website! She has to manage content on Jerkmate and Niteflirt, and Loyalfans and iWantClips, and I’m seeing spots just thinking of doing all of that in a week. But Gigi knows how to streamline and focus on what she’s good at and what is necessary. Her sessions remain her focus and her favorite part of her day. The way her face lit up and she started glowing when talking about her sessions made me wish I could see one!
And what about after a session, I wondered aloud. Do customers and clients ask for aftercare? Is aftercare available online? How does that work? Gigi nodded and explained. There’s a portion of people who stick around after a scene ‘ends’ for some aftercare but many don’t. Most are likely performing aftercare for themselves just as Gigi is giving herself aftercare. I asked what that looked like for her. She does the same things she tells her subs to do, she reported, such as drink water, get rest, reflect on their sessions together, and other regular self-care routines that feel good. All these help Gigi not to experience what folks in the biz call Dom/me Drop. (See Definitions below)
I inquired about what other supports she has that helped her stay so positive when this work can be so challenging. She mentioned having some personal mentors, some ‘vanilla life’ support, her studio TreasureCams was a big one, and she rounded out the list with self support. Gigi has some wonderful support now though that wasn’t always true. She spoke about dealing with internal and external stigmas when first transitioning into sex work. Internally, she faced conflict from ingrained societal expectations about what she should or shouldn’t be doing for work. Externally, she has lost friends, she has lost family, she has even faced banking discrimination. “Things are changing rapidly and not just in the political sphere,” Gigi reminded me, “but in the everyday, to try and make restrictions [to make life] that much harder [and] that’s not new to 2024. But I think it’s important for people to use their voice.” And use her voice she did when Gigi suggested I, and all our readers, look into the Free Speech Coalition. (See Definitions below)
I invited Gigi to tell me more about her TreasureCams experience and, again, her face lit up. Gigi had been studio shopping as a way to transition out of vanilla work. When an ad for TreasureCams crossed her path, she couldn’t ignore the “divine timing”. Joining, onboarding, and integrating with TreasureCams was, in Gigi’s words, “amazing”! Gigi said of TreasureCams “It has been the utmost support that I could ever ask for. And not just from Bella [Vendetta] but from everyone in the studio who really is like ‘we are a group of dedicated sex workers who want to take it to the next level, who want to have people around us who support us’ which is not something you can find in this industry. Not everyone is face out, not everyone is open with their family. Not everyone has that opportunity and not everyone has that support from people around them. This can be a really isolating and lonely job, I'm here, you're there. […] But having TreasureCams to not only touch base on, literally everything! From cameras to costumes [...] to marketing to photography. [...] It has been the most career-changing opportunity, but also it's been life-changing and having that type of support and knowing that something like this can exist. Because I'll tell you, I've been in this industry since 2017 [...] and that's not something that is common.”
Now that truly sounds like a strong community. I asked, what does cammunity mean to Gigi? It’s the absence of gatekeeping, she described. “There are so many aspects and things I would not think about and I would not thrive the way that I do without having that [TreasureCams] cammunity.”
It’s incredible to see a group of individuals running their businesses so separately come together to assist each other instead of compete. Because it’s true, this business is incredibly isolating. It is a self-run independent business. Miss Gigi Fox is the only Miss Gigi Fox. I wanted to know, what does working for herself do for her? She gave me that stunning smile that I was getting to know so well. Her eyes fluttered as she looked into the camera and she said “Working for yourself and building something is the American dream. I think, no not think, I know that this job affords me the freedom to call everything I do my own. And on good days, it's amazing but on bad days, I know that I did everything I could to say; this is what I did, this is my own. And it's not some CEO in some other state who is like, okay, this is fine, I'm still gonna take a million dollars away and here's your minimum wage check. I know that when I do expand and grow my business that I can use my own values and ethics to support what I believe in.”
The chills that ran down my spine when she spoke about growing her business thrilled me. I begged Gigi for any hints, any teasers about what she was building and what might come next!! All she would say is “big things are on the way”.
So, dear readers, we must keep an eye on Miss Gigi Fox!
Find Miss Gigi Fox:
Twitter https://twitter.com/MissGigiFox
Instagram https://instagram.com/missgigifox_
Definitions:
Aftercare: the care provided after a kink scene
Banking discrimination: refers to the unequal treatment and barriers faced by individuals when accessing financial services. These discriminatory practices can include debanking, higher fees and interest rates, seizure of funds, limited access to credit and property, and more. Many sex workers have logged into their banking platforms to discover that they have $0.00 and their accounts have been closed.
BBW: Big Beautiful Woman
Cammunity: community of cam models
Dominatrix: female dominant
Dom: dominant (often male)
Domme: female dominant (pronounced “dom”)
Dom/me Drop: emotional “drop” or depression that can occur after dominating someone
Free Speech Coalition: The Free Speech Coalition (FSC) is a non-profit trade association representing the pornography and adult entertainment industry in the United States. Founded in 1991, it opposes obscenity laws and censorship laws, except for "anti-piracy" laws